On today's book market, there is a plethora of children's picture books that deal with a variety of emotions or social mores. I tend to veer away from them as we can sometimes create issues by addressing a problem that really doesn't exist in the mind and heart of the child. But this book is an interesting concept and presentation to handling grief. So if you and or your child are in the throes of a grief battle, perhaps this will benefit you.
My thoughts: As you open the book the illustrations stark line-drawings are the first to capture your interest. Somewhat different from the usual children's picture book. Lots of black lines and grey shadings. No background imagery to flesh-out the starkness. It isn't weird. It's just stark and devoid of happy colors and brightness of spirit.
The book is directed to the heart of the grief process and the depth and weightiness that a child can experience when faced with grief and loss. Pictured is probably an elementary age child. Longish legs, slender build. Definitely not toddler or preschooler. But not a teen.
So just how much "grief" and sense of "loss" does a child experience? I personally don't know and haven't had to deal with that for my own children. True, my children lost beloved grandparents through death and they were certainly sad. They loved and were loved by these dear ones. But I did not sense a depth of despair in their sadness. That is not to say that it doesn't happen. Loss of a parent or a sibling can probably wreck havoc on a child's spirits. So when it happens, those who care and tend the child need to have an arsenal from which to draw to uplift their spirits.
In The Good For Nothing Puddle the child has deep seated pain from losing a loved one. She tries to push down her feelings of loss and get on with living, but it doesn't work and she begins to weep in despair. The result is a puddle - a good for nothing puddle.
Along come different personages that benefit from the properties of her little good for nothing puddle. She eventually realizes that the puddle does serve a good purpose.
I found the book enlightening as to the grief, or loss, experience of a child. I found, too, that our sad emotions give us lessons that may prove beneficial to someone else that comes along in our lives.
Therefore, I think this is a beneficial book. Perhaps your child has a friend that is sad. Reading this book to your child may help him or her understand their friend's sadness. Or perhaps you will find the book and gentle story beneficial in helping your own child to handle deep-seated loss and grief emotions.
I recommend.
About the book: The Good for Nothing Puddle is a powerful picture book that helps kids (and adults!) find hope when grief feels overwhelming. Through a touching story and beautiful illustrations, this book reminds us that even in our darkest moments, God is near.
In this powerful picture book about a girl experiencing loss, The Good for Nothing Puddle helps children explore the nature of grief and loss and leads them to find hope and redemption from pain.
When a girl loses the thing she loves the most, her tears gather into a puddle around her feet that follows her everywhere she goes. At first, she tries her best to make it go away, but it is inescapable. She even cries out to God to take it away.
Eventually, a puppy, a farmer, and an artist stumble upon the girl and her puddle. Each one finds the puddle extremely useful in their own way and slowly the girl begins to understand that her “good for nothing” puddle might just be good for something after all! As she learns to accept her grief, she begins to find happiness again. Filled with moments of sorrow and joy, The Good for Nothing Puddle is a powerful metaphor for dealing with difficult emotions and navigating grief while holding onto faith.
The Good for Nothing Puddle:
Is for children who have experienced loss of any kind, big or small
Was reviewed and endorsed by a Christian counselor specializing in child therapy
Teaches children as well as adults how to find hope in darkness
Is filled with lively and dramatic illustrations
Is great for families as well as Sunday school classes and church libraries, and anyone struggling to find God amid sadness
DISCLOSURE: I received a complimentary copy to facilitate a review. Opinions are mine, alone and are freely given. Giveaway is hosted by FrontGate Media and publisher or author. Prize is provided by host. Chat With Vera is not responsible for lost or misdirected prizes.
The Natural Genius of Ants by Betty Culley (5/10/22; Crown Books for Young Readers; ISBN: 9780593175774; Hardcover $16.99; Ages 8-12; 240 pg)
In The Natural Genius of Ants, Harvard’s dad is a doctor, caring for the smallest and sickest babies in the hospital where he works. After a mistake leads to tragedy, Dad isn’t the same, but a summer trip back to his hometown of Kettle Hole, Maine, could be just what the doctor ordered.
In the small town where he grew up, Dad seems more himself. Especially once the family decides to start an ant farm–just like Dad had as a kid! But when the mail-order ants are D.O.A., Harvard doesn’t want Dad to experience any more sadness. Luckily, his new friend Neveah has the brilliant idea to use the ants crawling around the kitchen instead. But these insects don’t come with directions. So the kids have a lot to learn–about the ants, each other, and how to forgive ourselves when things go wrong.
Culley draws on her time as a pediatric nurse in Maine, as well as keeping her own ant farm and caring for a carpenter ant queen, in this lyrical coming-of-age story about forgiveness, moving forward, and coming home. The Natural Genius of Ants is a perfect summer read for budding scientists, as well as fans of her first award-winning middle grade novel.
NOTE: To get a glimpse of the book, go to Amazon (click here) and read a few pages in the hardcopy version. Book is available in kindle, audio, and hardcover.
DISCLOSURE: I was provided a complimentary copy of this book. I have not yet read it and therefore can not verify or comment on it's content. Winner's prize copy if provided and shipped directly to the winner by MMPublicity or publisher. Chat With Vera is not responsible for lost or misdirected prizes.
What happens when an unconventional grief counselor gives two people each a private cell phone and only the first initial of the other person affected by an accident? How does this help them heal? And what else might happen?
About the book:
Two hearts, two souls. Devastated by loss, united through destiny.
The rules: Communicate only through text messages and never reveal our real names or other personal details.
My name is Ean Montgomery. After the drunk driving accident that killed my wife, son, and unborn daughter, I was forced to see a grief counselor. In an unconventional move, she gave me a private cell phone and the first initial of the name of a woman who had been widowed by the same accident. I had no intention of ever texting her but with all hope and the will to live gone, I found myself quickly slipping down the rabbit hole. Desperate, lonely, and unbelievably sad, I reached out to her and she became my everything.
My name is Dani Adams. I was married to my college sweetheart, the love of my life. Together we were raising our four-year-old daughter and running a successful business. Then the accident happened and life as I knew it ended in the blink of an eye. I didn’t want to answer his text but I was barely hanging on by a thread and he was in tremendous pain, so I replied. And once again, my world was forever changed.
Over the course of a year, through texting alone, we bond. Friendship blossoms into something deeper. We were never supposed to meet, but fate had other plans, and in this world of loss and despair, something amazing began to grow… But can the passion we’ve found sustain itself with the deep, soul-twisting pain that never seems to fade?
Trigger Caution: This book is romantic fiction and is a story of hope, friendship, and the power of love. It also deals with the aftermath of great tragedy and grief and the deep emotional turmoil that can be encountered.
About the Author:
Stacy Mitchell was born and raised in Los Angeles, and lived in the South Bay for 20 years before moving to the Conejo Valley. She lives with her husband of 29 years and is the mom of two grown sons. When she’s not writing, she spends her time reading, hiking in the Santa Monica mountains or enjoying a glass of cabernet.
NOTE: I have not read this book and don't know the contents or reader audience appropriatness. However, the premise sounds intriguing and the life changing emotional involvement quotient compelling.
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